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VII - Chariot

VII Chariot – Tarot of Dreams – Ciro Marchetti

This Major Arcana card is chalked full of raw, unbridled energy.  This can be a great asset to you if you can learn to control it.  In whatever you are dealing with, you are only beginning to form a structure or framework that will allow you to be successful.

You may be feeling very confident, dare I say cocky.  Although it may seem like the situation has taken on a life of its own, this level of confidence may be a little premature.  You still have a lot to learn and if you don’t reign it in, that energy may just lead you to falling flat on your face.  It is your job to control it and put structure around it.  You have only just begun that process.

The situation may be quite unruly, with many different energies pulling in different directions: emotions, thoughts, external pressure, unforeseen circumstances.  You must bring all these energies together and point them all in a single and correct direction.  It is a tricky job to find balance, but it is one that you must take on.

Control your emotions, keep your eye on the goal and hunker down for a long journey.  Short-term structure and long-term goals are the key to your success.

This card can have several meanings depending on the context.

V Coins

V Coins – Tarot of Dreams – Ciro Marchetti

On a positive note, it can mean protecting a child or a loved one, maybe even with extreme measures.  Sometimes we must put aside our own stuff and do everything possible to do right by the people who mean the most to us.

More likely you are feeling like you are, or you actually are, in deep trouble.  Maybe you need help but you don’t know where to look for it or maybe you are even unwilling to take the help being offered to you.  Help may be right in front of you but you can’t see it or you are too prideful or stubborn to accept it.  Maybe you feel that the system or your support network has failed you.  Poor you.

The universe has sent you a correction.  You have ignored the signs for so long that now the obstacle in your way is big enough that it cannot be ignored.  You have made some poor decisions and now you must endure the consequences.

Any way about it, change is coming.  You may be hungry for it or you may feel terribly burdened by it.  Your success of failure in managing this change will depend entirely on your attitude toward it.  You can’t control the circumstances, only your reaction to them.

If you are having a hard time dealing with your circumstances, you will find great relief by nourishing yourself emotionally and spiritually.

I have been wanting to present an in-depth analysis of each card as a tool for those learning about the card, but also to increase my knowledge about each card as well.   Honing and deepening your skill is the responsibility and job of every craftsman.

I  decided to randomly pull one card at a time to think about and what do I pull the first day out?  Death.  Of course.  Couldn’t start with something light or uplifting.  Had to go with death.  Very funny guys.

XIII Death

XIII Death  -  Tarot of Dreams
Ciro Marchetti

The most important thing to know about the death card is that it rarely means literal death.

For me, the death card has always been about new beginnings and ultimately that is a positive thing.  But, whenever we start off on a new path the old one must be left behind.  Moving on can create a loss much like death.  A part of ourselves gone forever.  Unlike the eight of cups, where the new possibility it leading you away from your old life, the death card comes at this from the angle that the current situation coming to an end is the driving force to change.  Something has worn out it’s welcome and it is time for you to set it aside so that you can move forward.     Even though this may be very sad and difficult, in the end you will come out the other side stronger and free to move forward.

In most decks the card depicts a reaper-like figure.   This figure demands surrender.  As everyone knows, there is no fighting the reaper.  But, in my deck there is also an image of a snake.  Snakes must shed their skin and start anew.  Like death and rebirth.  Try to think of the death card in these terms.

Life is an not ever unchanging, but an ongoing cycle of life and death.  Think of the transitional times in our lives:  Going off to kindergarten, leaving home for college, getting married, having children, moving to a new city, getting a new job, seeing your kids off to school and college, retirement.

These are all times when we must leave the person we were behind.  If you remained the person you were, you may never get to experience the life that you are meant to live.  We are pushed and forced into the future, looking eagerly forward yet mourning the past.

The death card teaches us to surrender gracefully to this kind of change.

When the death card appears in a spread, something is coming to an end.  It is time.  If you fight it, you will only limit your own potential and end up stuck in an unproductive and sad situation.  This card is telling you it is all right, even best, to give it up and move on with your life.

 

Well, the time has finally come.  I just sent EB, my youngest, off to kindergarten and I feel as though my life is beginning anew.  It is like a whole new stage of my life is beginning, one filled with more time for my passions and pursuits.  But I also feel so much pressure.  I have been home with my kids now for eight years; I can not believe it has been that long.  During that time there was no time, and therefore a endless supply of excuses.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I haven’t been sitting around doing nothing.  In addition to the full time job of raising small children I have grown a business based on the skills of my past career (Does your small business need a great website?), become a writer both in actuality and now finally in my heart and become an active member of my community.  And that just brushes the surface.  But somehow that has always seemed periferal.  There has always been this time looming when I am supposed to stop making excuses and start getting back to being a productive adult, whatever that means.  And now the time is here.

I feel like I have been given this amazing opportunity that so few people get to plan and build the future that I want.   What is going to fill me up and allow me to thrive and prosper in a way that provides balance and calm, the ability to be flexible for my kids, and the space to help them pursue their dreams?  What a gift I have been given.  Now don’t blow it!  Oh, the pressure is immense.

Enter The Redesigned Group.

I have created a group of blogs to help me explore what interests me, pursue my writing and hopefully find a way to focus and structure my time and mind.  Hey, maybe I will even make some money some day.  I have spent the last year planning and planning and building out the sites, waiting for this time when I will have the time to see it through, and now it is go time.

Welcome!  I am so excited to get started.  Please save a bookmark, share or subscribe, this is going to be really great!

What to expect from The Redesigned Life

I think I have known since I was very young that my purpose this time around was to grow.  It seems like every turn I have taken in my life has been with the purpose of learning a lesson or knowing something about myself that will help me to overcome a challenge or weakness.   I always seem to take the hard path, the one full of turmoil and bumps in the road.  It’s not like I don’t see the easier path, just that I can not help myself in choosing the more complicated option.

I am on a journey of growth and discovery.   My soul yearns for it, examining every action and reaction, battling demons and dragons and barely giving itself time to come up for air before diving into the deep end again.  Unfortunately this can be difficult for me and my family sometimes, especially my husband.  But, in the end I think maybe we chose each other because of this.   Maybe I am here to drag him kicking and screaming into a higher version of himself and maybe he is here to ensure that I don’t drift mindlessly off into the universe.  He grounds me and I challenge him.  Seems like a great match to me.

I am really excited to share with you the discoveries I make and the lessons I learn.  I hope that I can provide you resources and information that will help you to discover your own path and meet your own challenges.

We will discuss many self-improvement topics as well as personal spirituality, meditation and other spiritual practices, and how to foster your personal intuition and your relationship to the universe.

You will definitely hear much talk of spirituality here.  It is integral to growth and love and learning.  But, this has nothing to do with religion.  I am not a Christian or a Budist or any other sect of organized religion.   I grew up Episcopalian and am familiar with the teachings of many religions as I find them fascinating.  But, what intrigues me is not their differences but their similarities.  And that is why I believe that the type of spirituality and growth we will be discussing here transcends religion.  Any, all or no religion is a welcome sight here.  All I ask this that you open your heart to the possibility of connecting more intimately with yourself and whatever it is that you feel connects you to the vast universe.

I will say that although I am open to discussion and discourse, this is not a place to attack or judge anyone for their beliefs.  This is a place of openness and intelligent thought.  Educated comments that contribute to the conversation and add value are more than welcome even if they are of a different opinion than mine.  But, these are all touchy subjects and I will not tolerate ugliness.  All comments are moderated so anything offensive or off topic simply won’t be approved.  Thank you for respecting the community.  Whew, glad that is over.  I hate even having to mention that stuff.  Onward…

I have been consulting the Tarot for over 20 years now.  I find the cards insightful and a great tool in personal growth.  I do not claim to predict the future, the tarot isn’t set up for that.  My goal is to help you gain more perspective and information about the situation in question so that you can make choices that will lead you to the desired outcome.  You are in control of your life; No card can tell you what will happen or what choices you will make.  Any future outcome discussed in the cards is based solely on the precise circumstances that the question was asked.  We all know that circumstances change, almost continuously, so don’t get hung up on that.  Information and insight are what’s important and what will help you make good decisions that correspond to the lessons you are meant to learn and the life you are meant to lead.   Fulfillment is available to everyone, we just sometimes need a push in the right direction.

I do not call myself a psychic.   I have an intimate knowledge of the cards and a very close relationship with my intuition and spritual guides.  I have spent years training my body, mind and soul to be open to hearing the messages that surround us all.  I don’t think this makes me special, just more awake than the average person.  I believe that all of you are just as capable of that connection if you choose to elevate your soul to that level.

I am offering a variety of readings via email and will have more information and details about how to make that happen and pricing coming soon.  In the meantime,  I would like to offer a few select free tarot readings to get started in the hopes that you will provide me with some feedback as to the value, accuracy and format of the reading so that I can assure that I am providing the best possible service to my clients.  If you have read this far, then it is your lucky day.  Contact me and I will let you know all the details about how to get your free reading.  This offer will expire when I see fit.

Stick around, hang out and learn how to be the best version of yourself.

Now, not everything has to do with personal growth and spirituality.  We will also be talking about how to keep yourself organized and manage your time and use and increase your resources because what use is knowing what path you are supposed to be on if you don’t have the time, skills or resources to go after it.

And finally a short disclaimer.  You may from time to time see product recommendations, items for sale or advertisements and I may even make a little money if you decide to click on them or purchase something.  I want you to know that although this may be the case, it is never the sole intent of why I do this.  My interest is in my personal growth and yours.  But, the journey also includes providing for your family, if you have one, and keeping yourself healthy and well cared for.  Very important, so I hope you understand and will support me in that.

 

One of my most cherished times of the day is right before I go to sleep.  All cozy in my bed, quiet and dark.  My husband falls asleep in like 2 minutes (lucky duck) and so this is such nice time to myself.  Sometimes I read and sometimes I write.  Sometimes I even do my planning for the next day, unloading all the spinning garbage in my head into the necessary document, calendar or to do list.

But, most importantly I take a few moments to think about what my day tomorrow looks like.  I visualize getting the things done that need to get done and spending quality time with my family and finding time for myself.  I most definitely visualize my writing and work for the next day going easily with my creativity open and flowing.

There are several ways to accomplish this.  The easiest is to simply close your eyes and walk through how you would like the following day to go.  It really is that simple and it focuses your mind in the right place so that while you are sleeping your subconscious can go to work on making that the reality.  Taking five minutes a day to do this will significantly impact your life.  Give it a try.

Now, if you are looking for a more advanced practice or part of your journey is to reach your intuition more effectively, then keep reading.

In addition to this, I also use my tarot cards to support those thoughts with a simple three card daily reading.  I shuffle the cards thinking on the question “How can I make tomorrow a great day?” and then I draw three cards.  This usually gives me a good insight into what tomorrow might bring and where I can best focus my attention to ensure a productive and happy day.  Sometimes it will even reveal the best way to deal with something challenging that might come up.

In tarot, we generally discourage asking the same question over and over again, but in this case it is more like a daily meditation than a formal reading.

Not only is it very helpful as part of focusing my mind on each day, but it also is a great way to get to know the cards better.   If you are just starting out then this will be an invaluable tool in learning the meanings of each card as you will be exposed to them in many different simple combinations over and over again.  I have been reading for over 20 years now and I still find this a great way to examine the nuances of different cards as they appear combined differently.  It also give me the opportunity to listen to the cards and my subconscious speaking to me in a structured way on a daily basis.  This only improves my ability to provide insightful readings for my clients.